Ask Anna: how can you know when to phone it quits with buddy with advantages?

Ask Anna is just an intercourse column. Some columns contain language some readers may find graphic because of the nature of the topic.

Dear Anna,

I’ve been “seeing” this guy for the month or two. He’s weird about calling it dating, which can be fine I don’t see a future with him by me because. The intercourse is okay yet not great, and I also feel just like I’m mostly biding my time ( while he could be? ) until something better occurs. How can you understand when to phone it quits having buddy with advantages or whatever this is certainly? — Time’s Up?

Dear TU,

The cheeky answer is: You’re probably ready to call it quits around the exact same time you write to stranger on the web asking whether you need to call it quits.

The answer that is non-cheeky a little more technical. (more…)