Assist! I’m Married And Enthusiastic About Another Guy

Reader Obsessed writes:

I’ve developed an obsession with a person aside from my better half. I’ve been married a decade, and then we have actually kiddies. I’ve been fighting to help keep this obsession from increasing for over a 12 months. It began because of a family members tragedy by which someone you care about ended up being lost in a terrible means. Police force ended up being active in the incident and also this guy served as a liaison/support to my loved ones during this time period. In the long run my appreciation and admiration he responded to the tragedy has grown into intense emotional and physical desire for him as a result of the way.

We now have had extremely face contact- i believe just 3 times within the last 1.5 years. But we now have had far more contact via social media/text/etc. At one point we confessed to him that i needed him (in which he reinforced this by acknowledging his very own desire to have me personally) but I became clear that i really could not/would perhaps not work with this because i really do perhaps not desire to risk my endowed life with my husband/child. (more…)